Which Is More Important The Technology Or The Human Relationship

Which Is More Important The Technology Or The Human Relationship Last week was a abuzz with news about Googles new OpenSocial announcement, which is supposed to be this amazing platform that allows people to develop a widget or feature for many social networks (including MySpace, LinkedIn, all of Nings social networks (over 100,000!), and more (but not Facebook, yet)). And then Yahoo announces it is launching Kickstart, for the college market. Wait, didnt Facebook do that already? Yep, but when they allowed non-college adults into the network last year the college kids, feeling violated, freaked out. Of course this presents a market opportunity, and Kickstart is not the first nor will it be the only just for college kids social network to fill that gap that Facebook created. I could go on and on this is a noisy, confusing space! What does it mean for you, for your career, and for your networking? Let me share some thoughts from Vincent Wright, founder of My LinkedIn Power Forum, and powerconnecter extraordinnaire. These thoughts, in my opinion are spot on, and definitely worth thinking about (especially if you feel like you are drowning in all of the networking technology noise). He starts off with: I prefer to stay focused on relationships not just technology focused on relationships. For, if we dont master human relationships, technology is nothing more than a babys pacifier and having the same effects on our growth [that] a pacifier has on a babys growth and then, when questioned a little more, responds with: To me, its not a matter of which came first a relationship or technology. The question for me is fundamentally simple: Now that the technology has brought us together, what do we DO with our relationship? Technology is just a tare weight. Technology is no different than the utensils we use to enjoy our food and nourish ourselves. I dont love knives, spoons, of forks but, I can love the taste of the meals they help me consume. Likewise, I dont love technology but, I can get excited about them and what they portend in terms of healthy human relationships created via them. And, too, think about the trillions of permutations and combinations of contacts that have been fostered by technology and absolutely NOTHING is happening with contacts. NOTHING. At all. NO relationship just awareness of one another. Technology connects us and nothing happens beyond that. That is, until human INTENTIONALITY gets added to the equation and humans reach out to help one another prosper, to grow, to strengthen themselves. The technology that brings us together is impotent in that regard. Humans mattered first and humans will matter last Vincent is not afraid of, or unfamiliar with technology. In fact, hes tried more tech network things than I have, and has more history in this space. But Vincent does not neglect the end goal. For him, the technologies are not toys, rather they are tools. But it all comes down to relationships. Very nicely put Vincent (props to Jay Deragon, blogger at A Relationship Economy blog, for engaging Vincent in this discussion) Which Is More Important The Technology Or The Human Relationship Last week was a abuzz with news about Googles new OpenSocial announcement, which is supposed to be this amazing platform that allows people to develop a widget or feature for many social networks (including MySpace, LinkedIn, all of Nings social networks (over 100,000!), and more (but not Facebook, yet)). And then Yahoo announces it is launching Kickstart, for the college market. Wait, didnt Facebook do that already? Yep, but when they allowed non-college adults into the network last year the college kids, feeling violated, freaked out. Of course this presents a market opportunity, and Kickstart is not the first nor will it be the only just for college kids social network to fill that gap that Facebook created. I could go on and on this is a noisy, confusing space! What does it mean for you, for your career, and for your networking? Let me share some thoughts from Vincent Wright, founder of My LinkedIn Power Forum, and powerconnecter extraordinnaire. These thoughts, in my opinion are spot on, and definitely worth thinking about (especially if you feel like you are drowning in all of the networking technology noise). He starts off with: I prefer to stay focused on relationships not just technology focused on relationships. For, if we dont master human relationships, technology is nothing more than a babys pacifier and having the same effects on our growth [that] a pacifier has on a babys growth and then, when questioned a little more, responds with: To me, its not a matter of which came first a relationship or technology. The question for me is fundamentally simple: Now that the technology has brought us together, what do we DO with our relationship? Technology is just a tare weight. Technology is no different than the utensils we use to enjoy our food and nourish ourselves. I dont love knives, spoons, of forks but, I can love the taste of the meals they help me consume. Likewise, I dont love technology but, I can get excited about them and what they portend in terms of healthy human relationships created via them. And, too, think about the trillions of permutations and combinations of contacts that have been fostered by technology and absolutely NOTHING is happening with contacts. NOTHING. At all. NO relationship just awareness of one another. Technology connects us and nothing happens beyond that. That is, until human INTENTIONALITY gets added to the equation and humans reach out to help one another prosper, to grow, to strengthen themselves. The technology that brings us together is impotent in that regard. Humans mattered first and humans will matter last Vincent is not afraid of, or unfamiliar with technology. In fact, hes tried more tech network things than I have, and has more history in this space. But Vincent does not neglect the end goal. For him, the technologies are not toys, rather they are tools. But it all comes down to relationships. Very nicely put Vincent (props to Jay Deragon, blogger at A Relationship Economy blog, for engaging Vincent in this discussion)